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THE FLIRTING RECIPE
Flirting is an art of illuminating your positive aspects through your speech and gestures so that the person(s) from whom you want to draw attention is charmingly attracted to you.
Forget about all your over the top devices to make yourself as gorgeous as the Hollywood crowd. All you need is a great, genuine smile and some hints on how to flirt when you get your ex back.
Flirting isn’t just for singles. It’s a great way to have fun and create a build up to a love making encounter. Attract the opposite sex like bees to honey with these guaranteed tips.
- For ladies it’s important to come across approachable to a man for him to feel comfortable taking a risk.
- For men it’s important to show his masculinity (don’t overdo it) and appear confident and secure.
THE INGREDIENTS
SMILING is the most important ingredient in your flirting recipe. It is one of the ways to be attractive and approachable. If a guy has have loved eyes and a smile with a woman 3 times in one night, she’s interested!
WHEN EYES MEET it’s the universal sign of openness and your target will know it is them you are flirting with. Lock eyes for 6 seconds then smile and drop your stare. Do this 3 times in fifteen minutes.
MOVING YOUR HANDS up and down a glass or playing with something on the table send very sensual messages.
CROSS YOUR LEGS ladies, especially if you’re wearing heels. This is seductive behavior to a man. So is dangling your shoe from your toes because the arch of the foot mimics a woman’s curves and a sexy message.
EXPOSURE OF HER NECK is another important and captivating ingredient in your flirting recipe. Tilt head to one side, exposing your neck and either flip your hair or a glance over your shoulder. The over the shoulder glance is sexy, allows you to lock eyes and sends a signal that you are confident with your appearance to give him a second look.
LIP ONCE-OVER is an effective flirting practice for both men and women. Lick your lips but don’t overdo it. Or, bite your lower lip (gently) and add a small smile.
MEN SQUARE OFF your shoulders. A dominant man is more attractive to a woman. Shy men should hold their head up and talk a bit faster in order to be more assertive.
CASUAL TOUCHES such as during conversation a woman puts her hand gently on a man’s arm.
Once you have combined the above ingredients and you have begun talking to your target, add these final touches to deepen your recipes effectiveness. Smile and maintain eye contact as they are talking to you. Give them your complete attention. Nod and tilt your head to show you are listening to what they are saying. Be genuine. Smile and Laugh to make the person feel comfortable and make a connection.
FLIRTING SIGNS
MenLook particularly for low-level touching (a brush of the arm or elbow), extended eye contact and laughing, as well as the ingredients listed above. WomenLook for above ingredients as well as a man talking about his successes, flashing money or cars.
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FOR MEN
THE ART OF KISSING RECIPE 
It’s been said that a woman can tell if you are the right guy for her from the first kiss. This idea has made the art of kissing a stressful venture for men, especially on their first date. A woman must feel some chemistry when she kisses you. Here is a recipe for impressive kissing.
THE INGREDIENTS
- Ensure good hygiene and be prepared.
- Ensure you have a good appearance and pleasant odor.
- Lips should be soft and supple and for that, start using lip balm on a daily basis. However, don’t use a balm just before kissing; it will be a major turn-off.
- Do not kiss if you have just had smelly things for lunch or smoked cigarettes.
At the same time, always keep mints with you, for that perfect fresh breath. - In the initial seconds, go easy. Give the other person time to feel completely at ease. You don’t want to be overly anxious or desperate. Once you are comfortable with your partner, try different type kisses. The French kiss is not the only kiss alive.
- Don’t become so lost in the kiss, so as to completely forget the other person.
- Be attentive to her non-verbal responses.
- Be confident. Being nervous while kissing is sure to make a mess of things. Just relax and go with the flow.
- Don’t take her by surprise. Slowly move closer to her and gently touch her face or neck before you go for the kiss.
- Don’t go straight for the French kiss. Ease into it with small kiss on the lips first, gently then slowly go for the French kiss.
- Don’t leave it in her mouth too long and control your saliva.
- Practice kissing on the back of your hand if you feel you’re not up to par with your kissing technique.
Follow her lead
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THE BETTER LOVER RECIPE
The purpose of this section is to inform you of some basic principles of the sexual fulfillment of women and to help you learn about a woman’s sexual needs, wants and desires.
THE INGREDIENTS
Once you and your partner decide you want to be physically active together, it is up to you, as the man, to pick the proper time, place and mood for your first encounter. Don’t just go for the first opportunity; make it a special encounter she will remember. A woman’s emotional and sexual pleasure can be amplified by a man bringing her to a maximum level of stimulation prior to actual intercourse. Have patience to lead a woman through foreplay.
Move from one activity to the next. Do not stay at one activity for too long. It interrupts the building of excitement towards intercourse itself. Oral Sex will help to relax and arouse a woman before intercourse. Oral sex is one of the main ingredients for a great lover. Hit the “G” Spot. You need to learn where to find a woman’s “G” spot and then you need to hit the nail on the head in order to bring a woman to orgasm during intercourse. You can find out how to accomplish this by visiting http://www.ehow.com/how_2044060_hit-the-gspot.html. To learn the 3 most suitable positions to hit the “G” Spot during intercourse visit http://www.articlesbase.com/sexuality-articles/the-3-hidden-g-spot-positions-to-drive-her-wild-93773.html
During foreplay be sure to change up the position frequently before they become boring Anticipation is one of the most effective techniques a man can use to arouse a woman. If your partner is fulfilled, your sexual satisfaction will be heightened as well.Two bodies coming together filled with sexual desires are about to create a work of art that no one can reproduce because it's yours and only yours. Don’t rush this work of art. Show your partner your newly improved love making skills as a testament to how much you love them and how devoted you are to the relationship.
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FOR WOMEN
THE ART OF KISSING RECIPE
Kissing is a give and take action. They give you tongue, so you take it. Their mouth is open more than yours, so you open a little wider. Kissing is like dancing. When a rhythm and pace start up it makes for an arousing, passionate moment.Let him initiate the first kiss. Women can initiate a kiss, preferably just not the first kiss. Even modern men tend to prefer the old fashioned rule of the man making the first move. So let him make it!
THE INGREDIENTS
- Ensure good hygiene and be prepared.
- Ensure you have a good appearance and pleasant odor.
- Lips should be soft and supple and for that, start using lip balm on a daily basis. However, don’t use a balm just before kissing; it will be a major turn-off.
- Do not kiss if you have just had smelly things for lunch or smoked cigarettes. At the same time, always keep mints with you, for that perfect fresh breath.
- Keep eyes closed.
- Accept your partner’s kiss by imposing a different rhythm after a few seconds. Use pauses to look into your partner’s eyes, let your souls connect as your lips connect during the kiss. Remember, rhythm is important.
- Relax, don’t tense up or start rambling. A man will often take this as a sign you are trying to avoid kissing him by talking a lot.
- Speeding up the pace and pressure can make for more intense kissing.
- If you are happy with the initial few seconds of the kissing, you can let your partner know by initiating more intense kissing.
THE BETTER LOVER RECIPE
A woman who is considered “good in bed” gives as much as she receives. Instead of lying around waiting for the man to do what she likes, she is one step ahead of him and maybe even sometimes she takes the lead, which in turn encourages the man to take their love making a notch higher.
THE INGREDIENTS
Share with your partner what really turns you on. One of the sure ways to keep your partner happy in the bedroom and lasting longer, give him oral sex. If you are not comfortable with this but would want to attempt it for it’s purpose, do some investigating, be open with your partner about it. He will find it all the more exciting that you are willing to try it out.
- Share with your partner the one or two things that would really provide you with the ultimate pleasure bliss. Being open in this area can be fun and also provides a sexy buildup to your love making.
- Caress your partner before and during love making. Use your fingers tips to apply different strokes of light touch, heavy kneading and deeper massage to various parts of your partner's body.
- Be open to new things. What works for one person does not always work for another. Your last partner may have been more conventional in bed while your current partner is a bit more on the wild side. Most men find an open minded woman sexy and alluring. For men and women both, attitude toward love making is important.
There is a difference between good love making and GREAT love making. One is satisfying and emotionally fulfilling the other is both of these plus more intense and unrestrained – the ones you think about for days and won’t soon forget.
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A BODY POSITIVE WOMAN
A Body positive woman has these 5 secret potions that make them feel confident, secure and relaxed about their bodies.
Use these 5 secrets to enhance your appeal when you get your ex back.
- 75% of women surveyed said professional achievements make them feel better about their body. When a woman feels valued she is less likely to need confirmation from the mirror.
- 96% of women say keeping fit makes them feel more confident about their body.
- 85% say love making makes them feel better about their body.
- 97% say eating nutritiously boosts their body image. 95% of women say getting compliments from other women helps them like their shape better.
These recipes and information will really add zest to your love making when you get your ex back and will help open your lines of communication and regain closeness in the relationship. Remember the areas to concentrate on right now to get back your ex.
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To recap you should be focusing on yourself in the beginning and not having any contact with your ex. Drive your career and your social life and regain interest in things you love but haven’t done for a while. Be strong and one of the best ways to do that is to keep busy and be around people that stimulate you and can make you laugh. Once you do this for a couple of months regain the contact but be cool. Show that you can have casual contact and that you are dealing fine with the break up, without actually saying it.
These are the two initial and crucial areas of focus. Watch the video that will put you on the road to obtaining the next steps on how to get an ex back and bring back a lost love.
